4 Sunday
Advent
Matthew 1:18-25
Illustrations
"Mary was a little
girl who was asked to run an errand for he mother shortly before
supper. She dashed away to the store to get a loaf of bread. But supper
was on the table and the family all gathered and still no Mary.
Finally, she came skipping in with the loaf of bread. Her mother
scolded her for fooling around on the way home. Mary said she had seen
Susan and Susan's doll just broke. Her mother asked "Did you help Susan
fix her doll?"
"No", Mary said, "I helped her cry!!!"
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.I received a Christmas card many years ago, which I shall never
forget. On the front of the card was a stable with Baby Jesus lying in
a manger. Above you could see the beams of the manger and ever so
lightly they were casting a shadow on the Baby in the form of a cross.
The inside of the card said, "The wood of the manger, became the tree
of the cross." Isn't that true?
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Joseph had a problem. His fiance,
Mary, was pregnant, and everyone knew it.
You know what small towns are like.
There are no secrets. Maybe Mary said
something to a friend, or someone
noticed that her monthly time hadn't come
. . . Well, there are all sorts of
ways that word gets out. Mary was
preggers, as they say, sniggering on
street corners, and -- and here was
Joseph's dilemma -- and Joseph wasn't
the father. If the local gossips knew
who the real father was, they weren't
saying. They and Joseph alike knew for
a fact that it wasn't Joseph.
What to do? What to do? Joseph and
Mary were betrothed, engaged, almost
married. Back in those days,
betrothal wasn't something one fooled around
with. Betrothal was tantamount to
marriage itself. If you cheated on your
betrothed, you were committing
adultery. And there was only one way out of
the betrothal -- divorce. Joseph's
course was clear. There was only one
thing for him to do. Mary had cheated
on him. He could never complete the
marriage now. They had to get a
divorce.
The course may have been clear, but
it wasn't easy. Joseph loved Mary. He
respected her faithfulness, her
intelligence, her daring spirit. If it were
up to him, hurt as he was, he might
even be willing to forgive her. After
all, if she promised she would never
did anything like that again . . . She
was young, only twelve or thirteen.
She'd learn. Shouldn't she be given a
chance?
But on the other hand, Joseph was a
righteous, decent, law-abiding man.
Adultery was not something one could
just dismiss. It was a sin against the
family, the spiritual and economic
basis of society. And adultery was such a
huge sin, such an unforgivable sin,
that the Bible itself said it should be
punished by stoning the sinner to
death. If Joseph forgave Mary, wouldn't
that be like condoning the sin?
Wouldn't it undermine society to be soft on
adultery? Everyone would know that
Joseph wasn't the father. No one would
ever trust him to honor and uphold
the law in a tough situation again.
"Well," Joseph said to himself, "as
they say in synagogue, 'Hate the sin,
love the sinner.' I can't go ahead
and marry Mary after all this. But I can'
t stand to see her killed, either. I
know. I'll put her away quietly. She'll
go off somewhere, have the baby in
private, spend the rest of her life
living unmarried with distant
relatives. It's a pretty grim future for her,
but at least it's better than death
by stoning. And the law does give me
that much wiggle room."
Joseph sighed. He'd found a solution.
It wasn't a great solution. It wasn't
even a good solution. Joseph still
loved Mary and wished he could brush it
all aside. But that would undermine
morality, and he couldn't do that
either. Oh . . . Dang! It was a
solution. He'd do it. And so Joseph went to
bed that night, with his decision
made and his stomach still in knots. It
probably took than the usual amount
of time for him to fall asleep.
That night, in the midst of Joseph's
fitful dreams, a miracle occurred. An
angel appeared to Joseph and said,
"Joseph, son of David, do not be afraid
to take Mary as your wife, for the
child conceived in her is from the Holy
Spirit. She will bear a son, and you
are to name him Jesus, for he will save
his people from their sins." That's
it! Problem over! Since Mary was
pregnant by the Holy Spirit, she
hadn't committed adultery after all! Joseph
could forgive her, which is what he
wanted to do anyway, and still firmly
uphold family values! Hallelujah!
Sure -- there was still the problem of
what people would think, but you
can't have everything. And so Joseph took
Mary as his wife, named the child
Jesus, and the rest is history. End of
story.
from a sermon by
Barbara Bundick
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The Real Picture
During the long war years a boy
looked frequently at a picture of his daddy on the table. He had left
when the boy was a young infant. After several years the boy had
forgotten him as a person but he would often look at the picture and
say, "If only my father could step out of that picture and be real...."
Christmas means that in a sad day of
sin when man had almost forgotten God, He stepped into the world in the
form of His Son.
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My favorite Christmas pageant story
is presented by Charlie Schultz in comic strip, Peanuts. Linus has been
assigned the part of narrator. He must open the performance with the
retelling of the angel's appearance to Mary announcing that she has
been honored to bear the Christ child. However, Linus has in past years
struggled with a bad case of stage fright, so he works hard to memorize
his lines. In the days leading up to the performance he has rehearsed
and re-rehearsed his lines. His has ingrained them into his memory. By
the day of the performance, he can recite them flawlessly. But when
that moment arrives for him to announce,
And the angel came in unto her and
said, "Hail, thou that art highly favored, the Lord is with thee;
blessed art thou among women.
Fear not, Mary for thou hast found
favor with God and behold, thou shalt conceive in thy womb, and bring
forth a son, and shalt call his name JESUS
He froze with fear. He began to
quiver before the congregation. In desperation, he tries to remember
his line but all he could do is raise his hand and say
Zap, your pregnant
from
Reverend John H. Pavelko
Crossroads Presbyterian Church
1445 Welch Rd
Walled Lake MI 48390